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Enjoying your adult phone call (Adult Phone Sex)

NiteFlirt Therapy Candace Therapist for submissive menHello everyone,

I wanted to say a few things about how to enjoy your phone sex call when using a commercial adult phone service.  In order to enjoy yourself and set your own expectations properly, the first thing most of you should do is just accept that it’s just ENTERTAINMENT.  It is supposed to be enjoyable for us both.  I have over 15 years of experience in this business, and I enjoy 99% of my clients.

Although I am educated in life coaching and some psychology, I am not a Ph.D. nor do I pretend to be.

Set your expectations before you call me…calling phone sex is a step-up from watching static screens of adult content photos and ‘made for screen’ porn videos.  It is a chance to share personalities, to connect with another person and share thoughts, fantasies and converse.  It’s an opportunity to get a woman’s perspective on a few things and at least in my circumstance, talk with an intelligent and experienced mature woman about your sexual desires/thoughts.  You can even make confessions to me.

PHONE SEX CALLS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE ENTERTAINING

The second thing is to understand that it’s a telephone.  No one can read your mind.  If you don’t open up and articulate your desires, wants and needs, no one can. I don’t enjoy a man of mystery.  I am not looking to ‘guess’ what’s on your mind, or what you’ve done in the past nor do I wish to jump the high rope to divine your ‘hot topic’ or ‘trigger words’.

My service is predicated on phone sex therapy.

You wouldn’t walk into a therapist’s office after making an appointment and expect him/her to guess what you want to speak about.  She is there to offer aid, understanding and to ask questions of you to glean more information and sometimes, to find answers.

And, thirdly, but not the least important, is for you to understand that you have a long history of those preoccupations, fetishes, interests and fantasies.  You won’t get far with anyone by using one-word answers to questions, and not being forthcoming.

I can only understand you, if you understand yourself, a least a fair amount.

Also, being that I am not a licensed Ph.D., nor do I specialize in mental health disorders, personality disorders, addiction or anti-social personality disorder, I have studied them and narcissistic personality complex in particular, I am not interested nor equipped in dealing with those who suffer from a deep psychological issue. (and I won’t.)

So, in sum, just sit back pull your phone out, pull your pants down and take a deep breath and let’s enjoy our relationship as it is.  Whether it’s’ cuckolding, hot wife scenarios, beta male issues, learning to date again, divorce recovery, loneliness, a toxic relationship, a chronic sexual fantasy, a bothersome family issue, being gay and on the DL, mid-life crisis issues, craving BBC, wanting to understand women better, or just a good ol’ chin wag as the Brit’s say, call me.

I am easy to speak with and intelligent.

Be open, enjoy and call me often.

C.